Last June 7, Japan celebrated “Proposal Day,” and the otaku community didn’t want to miss out. Taking advantage of the date, a survey was conducted among Japanese fans (aged 23 to 51) to answer one of the industry’s oldest and most debated questions: which female anime character would be the perfect wife?

Voters focused on qualities like strength, kindness, and being an unconditional partner in tough times, rather than just physical appeal. The result is a fascinating mix of classic and modern heroines showing that, when thinking about marriage, otakus seek more than just a pretty design. Here’s the definitive top list.

10. Rei Ayanami (Neon Genesis Evangelion)

The pilot of EVA-00 tops the list. Though she starts as a silent, emotionless girl, fans noted that her small flashes of humanity throughout the story are pure gold. Many voters mentioned how adorable and sincere she seems while practicing to make miso soup, genuinely wanting to make her happy. Her iconic line about “smiling” still melts hearts decades later.

9. Frieren (Sousou no Frieren)

Our favorite millennium-old elf takes ninth place. The mage who helped defeat the Demon King has captivated audiences with her introspective journey to better understand human feelings. Fans who chose her say her calm personality would bring immense peace to daily life. They also joked that she lives a very long time, which is an undeniable plus.

8. Lum / Ramu (Urusei Yatsura)

The alien from the Oni clan arrives from space to claim her spot. Though extremely jealous of her “Darling,” her devotion is absolute. Voters noted that her pure, direct feelings are her biggest charm, saying a life with her would never be boring. Of course, her undeniable physical appeal also scored many points in the survey.

6. (Tie) Kyoko Otonashi (Maison Ikkoku)

The most famous and beloved widow in anime ties for sixth. The sweet but temperamental manager of the Ikkoku apartments is considered the ideal mature woman, especially by veteran voters who knew the work as students. Fans admitted that her jealous outbursts are adorable and that her protective instinct makes her a perfect candidate for starting a home.

6. (Tie) Asuna (Sword Art Online)

The undisputed queen of Aincrad couldn’t be missing. Asuna is deadly with a sword and famed for being an exceptional cook in both virtual and real worlds. Those who selected her highlighted her perfect balance for a happy marriage: a great personality, unmatched cooking skills, and the willingness to adapt dishes to her partner’s tastes.

5. Ran Mouri (Detective Conan)

The karate club captain and childhood friend of Shinichi Kudo secures fifth place. Despite her fearsome combat skills, Ran is a very homely girl who cares for her family with infinite patience and dedication. Fans praise her strong character, reliability, and the image of an attentive woman who will always be waiting at home.

2. (Tie) Bulma (Dragon Ball)

The Capsule Corporation heiress ties for second place. Though she can be spoiled, Bulma is an absolute genius who supports her family and friends with unwavering passion. Voters described her as surprisingly warm, valuing her loved ones above all her immense wealth and intellect. Her brutally honest nature is one of her greatest charms.

2. (Tie) Nami (ONE PIECE)

The Straw Hat navigator shares the podium. Her love for money is legendary, but her loyalty to her crew is even greater. Those who voted for her say she’s the strong, attractive woman who would take charge of the home with mastery. Her bright, cunning, and flirtatious personality would make every day feel full of vitality and adventure.

2. (Tie) Yor Forger (SPY x FAMILY)

The day office worker and deadly secret agent at night also claimed second place. Though her initial marriage is a farce and her cooking is dangerous, Yor is immensely loving and protective of her family. Fans adore her modesty and the stark contrast between her daily clumsiness and her imposing coolness when protecting her loved ones. An incredibly feminine, devoted, and strong woman.

1. Asakura Minami (Touch)

The undisputed first place and absolute queen of the survey. The legend from Mitsuru Adachi’s masterpiece crushed the competition. For the Japanese, Minami represents the golden standard of the perfect life partner. Voters justified their choice focusing on her deeply supportive nature, unwavering devotion during the toughest times, and her ability to bring out the best in those around her.

The results of this curious celebration made it clear that the audience highly values resilience and emotional support. It seems that, in the end, devotion and loyalty surpass any magical power when looking for the definitive life partner.